Tuesday, October 5, 2010

A day to BulauBulau Aborinial Village













I had a wild blast yesterday with good friends at BulauBulau. My best friend Sandy came back from Shanghai, I've told her about this trip a month ago so she can make herself available.

What is BulauBulau? It literally means idling around in the Atayal language. It is a village of the Atayal tribe of 9 families, the Chief Wilang was a landscape architect in Taipei but wanted to move out of the city 8 years ago, he wanted to return to his wife Sayei's homeland but it took him 2 years to wrap up his business in Taipei and to gather up the aborigines to execute the plan, to fulfill the dream. Finally they moved up to the mountains to begin this lengthy process 6 years ago, Wilang wanted to build an aboriginal village in the Atayal tradition. The son Kwali who lived in Australia for 8 years was our main guide who introduced us their village and gave us a tour around the land.

Bulau Bulau is located in the mountains, it gets very humid and cold in the winter as it falls around 2C. Upon arriving at YiLan which is about 1.5 hour from Taipei, 12 of us had to cross the longest hanging bridge of Taiwan and followed by a 15 min off road before we reach our final destination. Upon arrival, we see goats scattered on the field followed by a display of animal skulls on 2 wooden benches as souvenirs from hunting.

Bulau Bulau is a small village, we were greeted with lemongrass tea in the entertainment quarter for guests, it has a small kitchen where food is prepared, a dining area with 3 long massive wooden tables where they take a maximum of 30 guests. Our welcome treat was to BBQ our own pork on a stick which took them 4 days to marinate, there is a very special lemony scent to the meat, you can even eat it raw. All drinks were served in bamboos of different sizes which they dispose every week.

We had a quick tour of the village, we saw goats, chickens and ducks. We saw their current living quarters, the new ones which are still in the process of construction, it is said that it takes 2 years to build their new space which look like a modern villa. We saw how they make the rice wine, we saw women wove cloth, the fibers are woven into traditional patterns. The women have to sit with their legs stretched out with the wooden trunk on top of for at least 4 hours before they can take a break.

They hand make and hang build everything in the village, their diet is over 60% self sufficient from the land. We started with yam topped with a piece of ginger, the rice wine to pair with it was bubbly, it tasted like beer. 2nd dish was 3 types of vegetable presented with a Japanese touch, followed by angel hair like noodle with sauce which was super tasty. The 4th dish was grilled fish with cous cous like rice wrapped in a leave. Then came bamboo shoot topped with local salmon roe, it was very refreshing touch to the palette. The last dish was spring chicken for ladies and ribs for the gentlemen, the meat was tender and nicely marinated. I think we ended the course with soup if I remembered correctly. I was sober enough for the first half of our visit to finish the full course before the party turned into a wild blast.

Everyone started singing and dancing while local instruments were played. We were taught how they drink to make peace with enemies, two people must drink together from the same small rice wine glass. That was a highlight of our trip, we took turns drinking with the locals and within our group. We dance on the grass and befriended goats. Somehow the scenes recollected my memories on the images of Greek vases where Dionysus frenzied with men and women in distorted postures. It felt festive as if we were celebrating some sort of triumph, perhaps the getaway from the hustle and bustle for us the city dwellers.

My memory began to deteriorate due to the heavy amount of rice wine intake, we had 4 kinds of rice wine to pair with our 7 course lunch. I remembered I went to the kitchen to pay for the trip and came out busted and wearing a local apron snapped from one of the ladies in the kitchen. A lot of the memories were only reminded later by the photos taken.

Bulau Bulau was created to recapture the aboriginal tradition, to maintain everything as close to nature as possible. The drizzling rain added the misty touch to the mountains and created the romantic flair to the village. I praise these people who have the courage to pursue their dreams, to make the impossible so possible. May be one day I will be able and have the courage to pursue my own dream. Close friends of my brother's and mine joined, it was a Monday so everyone made the effort to attend, as the Chinese always say, the Sky, the Earth, the People were in harmony!

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

my aunt as a friend




How do you describe such special friendship? aunt/niece? friends? I guess we are both!

Ellie, she is my aunt, a real aunt but only 6 years older, she married my uncle 10 something years ago....I still recall the first time I saw her, she was still a flutist, my sister was a huge fan and she performed on stage from time to time.....we were at my parents' 30th anniversary and my uncle showed up with this slender elegant woman dressed in a black dress, his new girlfriend....honestly I can not recall at all on how our relationship evolved since that day 13 years ago, its something you can not explain because it just developed through time.

Although she is my aunt in the family tree, personally she is more as a friend to me, a very dear friend who I can dump trash and count on when Im in need of a shelter! We often exchange our deep secrets in life!

We used to hang out quite often before I turn into motherhood. We dont see each other so often these days since we both are very occupied with families. However, we do make sure we catch up with each other from time to time, updating the latest like any other girls. We sms each other a lot, we wine and dine together, sharing our gastronomic interests, we shopped at the same stores to a point that we talked about sharing clothes, we go to the same hair stylist, we exchange a lot of information on life style such as traveling, latest trend, new discovered spots..etc, we can drink and chat till the sun comes out........

The good old days, we used to travel together, we have been to Bali, Indonesia, Singapore, Shanghai, Hong Kong and India together, good memories! She met most of all my closed friends and we just mingle into a nice crowd when we see each other!

Friendship, comes in all forms, this one is definitely rare indeed!

Sunday, August 8, 2010

My friend, Eugene





My very dear friend Eugene lives in BKK with his daughter Andree-my god daughter, she was my god daughter even before she was born! We dont get to see each other very often but when we do, it always warms my heart and cheers my soul. We have known each other for almost 20 years and he walked me through some hard times in life and he has always been around when I needed a hand!

This time we met up just a few days after I came back from Europe, we are big sushimi eaters so of course we met up at our favorite sushi place with 4 bottles of white wine, that's our routine = sushi + white wine or Champange, I totally fished myself up that night after being in Europe for 5 weeks without any raw fish!

We went to a small bar Organo behind my house for a night cap, several Hello Kitty drinks and we headed home since Eugene had to take off early for China the following morning and Andree had to intern at a gallery! Patrick, a good friend of Eugene's, a very funny character one can not miss also joined us that evening!

Friendship, you don't need the quantity but definitely need the quality, its those unspoken words that speak between true friends! I can not explain how Eugene warms my heart neither how a comfortable vibe he carries when I see him, he just holds such a special place in my heart! Eugene, a very special friend indeed!

3 days in Shanghai (Aug 5 to 7)







I had to fly to Shanghai a few days after I came back from Europe, I was lazy but really had to get some stuff done, tax, bank, apartment search...etc...and of course I was dying to see my friends especially Sandy, my best friend!

I stayed at the Peninsula on the Bund this time, all is good with this hotel but I realized this type of glamorous 5 star city hotel is not my cup of tea anymore and I felt money was wasted. The room was filled with multiple digital panels including a nail dryer, panels showing outside temperature and humidity, cordelss fone panels with speaker in the toilet room as well as the bathroom, very thoughtful but unecessary.

We had a very nice dinner at Mr. Willis the first night, lots of wine and good food. It was great to see Karen, Tsai Tung and my brother. Sandy and I went back to my room and headed to the bar downstairs for more wine and of course we didnt get to bed with a clear head.

My best friend Sandy called me the following afternoon to join her at this new boutique hotel also on the bund but a bit further down,the first thing she said to me was you will love this place! She knows me well, a boutique hotel just opened with only 19 rooms in a loft setting, roof top bar with wonderful view of the river and Pudong, reminds me so much of New York. So we went to the bar twice that day, afternoon and evening, after a very delicious Shanghainese dinner, I havent had such yummy Shanghainese food in a long time, Im still drooling over the dishes.

3 days ended fast, it was hard to leave my friends but I do miss my girls tremendously and I really want to make it back for father's day for my hubby!

Friendship is therapeutic, I cherish these rare friendships and love my friends!